At the moment we are faced with difficult choices between work and kids, what will we choose? Children or working? Mediocre economic life, who work only a husband or wife alone. Child is young yet feel so spending money, most just milk and eating. Now if children have started attending school costs will be more and more.
Could have a child entrusted to the maid if there is or is deposited on a neighbor or child care. But everything has a risk. Children less familiar with both his parents and older people less understanding about the lives of children over the left, or less understand what a child's desire, lack of understanding the nature of children, even children feel closer to someone who has been watch and not feel lost when his parents left to go.
The most important thing is to educate children who should be conducted by our own early. Yes if there are helpers who really sincere maintain and educate our children properly. Now this is hard to find a housemaid who truly sincere to keep our children. I could have brought or could be kidnapped like yelled at if inconvenient.
It is one solution, trust and believe in God Almighty that He will give us good fortune when we are really needed. Who knows they may work at the time the child already large and began requiring school fees and others. God could also provide employment at the time the child is able to be independent and have understood about his parents.
So do not complain why a husband who works or why wives are working and have tried applying anywhere yet received. Be assured God knows better what's best for us. Or if any job offers menggirukan but the child is young, better postpone the offer. His child was entrusted as the mandate given to us to be kept, well-educated because it will be accounted for before Him someday. Wait a few great new children are thinking and trying hard work.
That is my personal opinion, but if there are friends who had other ideas it is the right friends. It's just a suggestion just because it's so I care to children who at this time many things happen that are not desired. So do not waste the opportunity with the child during his childhood. The most valuable treasure is the child than the treasures of the world. Why? because the wealth of the world can still be sought.
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