Do not Make Children Become Liar

Educating children is our duty as parents. However a lot parents want success for the educated, so that not infrequently the parents of the child's upbringing with the pressure. For example, help children learn to be angry if the child cannot do their homework, be angry if the child is not easy to memorize in one lesson, be angry if the child does not fast in math computation, and so forth. This is not good for mental and psychic children. Children will be bored to learn because learning is not due to his own desires but for fear of being scolded, and had already made the children lie to ourselves. Children are often scolded if sleeping, eating, learning is not timely; as a result the child becomes afraid and makes the spirit of children decreases. Children become unable to open with the problems he faces so as a scourge of parents for children.

Be a parent can understand the condition of children, can understand the desire of children, can understand the talents without having to be suppressed and forced into a person according to our expectations. Here are advices from me as a parent:

1. Home from school today to ask difficulties in school and help children find a way out.

2. Learning the night do not be forced if the child was feeling sleepy and tired because it affects the quality of a child's brain to catch all the subjects in school the next day.

3. Do not limit your child to eat, meaning parents do not be too afraid of the food to be consumed by children. Give a good understanding of where food is eaten and not eaten for good health. Do not directly ban because children will be cursed if you eat something forbidden. But children will consult first on the parent to the food to be eaten if the parent does not prohibit but to give understanding.

If we do so in addition to being parents to their children, we will serve as the best friend for the children. How proud we as parents have children who are always open and trust towards their parents in the face every problem without any fear and to sneak in their own way out. This condition is not easy for children to be influenced by something, it does not good in environment on the outside there because the child will feel guilty and we toward very young people even control our children with our children will far away if later she adults. Easy would make an honest child?